Miera writes about female pleasure, foreplay, and the tantric and Eastern practices that take the longest to learn and repay the effort most. She is not a doctor, a therapist, or a certified sex educator. What she brings is eight years with the same partner, a long habit of reading the actual research, and a refusal to write anything she hasn't lived through or thought hard about. She started The Dark Desires with her husband Rahul, because the advice they went looking for as young adults either didn't exist or wasn't worth reading.
Exhibitionism is arousal from being seen. Like its mirror image it is a word that covers two entirely different things — one of them a… Read More »Exhibitionism: What It Means, and How Couples Explore It Legally
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A foot fetish is arousal centred on feet — and, by extension, on ankles, toes, shoes and socks. It is one of the most mocked… Read More »Foot Fetish: What It Is, Why It Is So Common, and How to Bring It Up
A sadist, in the kink sense, is someone who is aroused by giving an intensity that another person has asked for. The qualifier on the… Read More »Sadist: What the Word Means in Kink, and What It Does Not
Kegel exercises are the most underrated sexual upgrade. This guide for both men and women covers routines, techniques, and proven pleasure benefits.
Voyeurism is arousal from watching. That is the whole definition, and almost everything interesting about it is in what the word has come to imply… Read More »Voyeurism: What It Actually Means, and How Couples Explore It