
Everyone is winging it.
Some of us wrote it down.
Long-form guides on sex, intimacy and asking out loud, written for adults who would rather have the detail than the euphemism.
Find your kink type Browse the guides
Sixteen questions, four minutes, and no email needed to see your result.
Start with what you came for
Seven subjects, 83 guides. Pick the one closest to what you are actually trying to work out.
Do you know your kink personality?
The Kink Compass asks sixteen questions and puts you in one of sixteen types. You get the type, what it means in practice, and the words that go with it. That last part is what makes it possible to ask for something.
Find your kink typeFour minutes. Nothing is stored and no email is asked for.
The sixteen types
- The Architect
- The Provocateur
- The Keeper
- The Storyteller
- The Disciplinarian
- The Tempest
- The Steady Hand
- The Enthusiast
- The Devotee
- The Instigator
- The Cherished
- The Dreamer
- The Stoic
- The Thrill-Seeker
- The Tended
- The Melter

The book
Fifty-two games, five tiers.
52 Sex Games for Couples — There are lists of sex games everywhere. What a list gives you is a name and a sentence, and then the two of you are working out how it starts and who goes first. Every game here has the same six sections — how to set it up, the opening move and the words for it, the rules, one way up and one way down, and what to do when it goes sideways.
Kindle · $2.99 · ₹299 · every scene in it is also on this site, free, in short form.
The hard part is the first sentence
The roleplay guides kept ending in the same place, with somebody who knew what they wanted and no idea how to say it. So we wrote the openers down.

