5 common fantasies and how to fulfill them – DarkDesires

Everybody has a fantasy that they would love to explore in the bedroom. Out of all of the kinky ideas we have had, there are a few common fantasies that we really want to try. But how?

Here on the DarkDesires blog, I will take a look at the 5 most common fantasies that people want to try and explain just how you can try them for yourself. I will tell you about the preparation needed, the props, and just how much fun you can have!

1) Threesome

Ask pretty much anyone what their deepest, darkest fantasy is and you will probably hear them start talking about threesomes. Threesomes are the ultimate sexual fantasy for many, as it gives them the chance to try having sex with multiple people at the same time. Plus, you get to see one hell of a show as your chosen partners start to kiss and fuck each other.

This is one of the most common fantasies for a reason. It is particularly popular with couples who want to spice things up. If this is the kind of fantasy you wish to explore, there are different ways that you can do this.

You might choose to ask your partner if they have a friend who would love to be involved, but this can come with a whole host of problems. This is why many choose to hire an escort. You get to spend time with a professional without the risk of emotional attachment… and because they are experienced, they’ll be able to guide you through it.

If not, there are a few simple ways to make sure everyone has fun in your threesome. First of all, take the time to figure out what you all want from it. If you are all on the same page, then do that! If not, try to make sure that everyone is involved. Gentle strokes can really help to put someone at ease if they seem unsure of the threesome.

2) Sex with strangers

Another big turn on for many people is to try something new. Often, this translates to fucking strangers. This might be as simple as enjoying a one night stand, but others in relationships might take it a step further with a little role play.

The role play allows you to spice things up without actually cheating on your partner. Either one or both of you pretends to be someone you aren’t, often meeting in a public place for a drink. You then seduce each other and go into the bedroom for your kinky fun.

3) Tied up

There is a lot of interest at the moment in BDSM. Things like Fifty Shades of Grey, while we might not enjoy the books and films, have really brought BDSM to the attention of many couples. There are so many different toys and tools out there for you to try that it is easy to see why this has become one of the most common fantasies.

BDSM involves giving up control to someone else. They dominate you, making you their submissive slave. You will do anything they tell you to in order to please them.

It is easy to get into BDSM if you have a strong relationship between you and your partner with plenty of trust. If you trust them, you will have the perfect relationship for your fun!

Whatever you choose to do in the world of BDSM, the most important thing will be talking to your partner about it. Make sure you are both clear on what you are going to do and what the safe word is. Then simply enjoy it. If you aren’t enjoying it, use the safe word and discuss it. Talking to your partner is a large part of BDSM, as it makes sure everyone is on the same page.

4) Caught out!

People like to task risks in the bedroom. They want to explore and try new things… but sometimes spicing things up in the bedroom isn’t enough. You want to go somewhere else… and for some people, this means sex outside. Of course, the biggest appeal to this is the risk of getting caught.

Most people prefer not to be caught, however. They like the idea of the risk, but not actually getting caught out. That is why some people choose to fuck in cars or in alleys where they aren’t likely to be disturbed. They get to enjoy the same thrills of being caught but with less risk! Perfect for those of you seeking a little more adventure.

5) Sexy costumes

Role play is a lot of fun for people to try. It is a great way to spice things up, especially if you don’t want to go to extremes and try things like BDSM. You can try something new and still have fun!

It is especially perfect for those eager to explore their fantasies. With the help of a little costume, some props, and your imagination, you can dream up a hot costume and fantasy to go with it.

Some of the most common fantasies to re-enact with costumes involve naughty schoolgirls in need of punishment, sexy secretaries taking notes for their bosses, and sensual nurses hoping to heal you with the power of sex.

Make sure you and your partner plan out exactly what is going to happen before you jump into bed. This will help to make sure you are both on the same page and that you both know what you are going to do to make it fun. Not sure? There’s plenty of porn you can watch… for research, of course.

The most common fantasies

You might not like the idea of exploring the most common fantasies, but they will give you the chance to change things in the bedroom and add a little bit of spice to your routine. Because they are the most common fantasies, you also have the chance to do plenty of research. People have different tips for you to try out if you look for them.